Cafe Rustica – Chef Andy Howell Hates Kids & Bloggers
Author: Bookstore Piet // Category: Cafe Rustica, Chef Andy Howell, restaurants, richmondWhere to start…. Hmmm. How about with the chef’s words himself.
Dear Bookstore Piet person- Since when does a “wish list” become “intolerable behavior?” You sound a little defensive of your well behaved child…the one that took the liberty (with parents okay) of dancing in the isle of my restaurant one night (you’ve written about it…go ahead, take a stab). While it was a darling display for you, it’s not a ritual that we would allow adults to engage in, and as a frequent diner in the city, not something that I want to put up with when I’m paying for a meal. Time to get over your self-important blog and realize that not everyone enjoys your kid. There are plenty of places that cater to the needs of youngsters and there are plenty of places where people go to get away from youngsters…you really need to learn the difference.
Chef Andy
Let’s start with professionalism. I’m also a small business owner and while I’ve been tempted to write about a few of my more ’special’ customers I would never do such a thing. Even if the person in question never read the item other potential customers might and make decisions based on my attitude towards my current clientele. From someone, like Chef Andy, who is in the business of hospitality it’s very telling.
Finn’s behavior… He sat through the entire dinner. He did not scream or make other noises. He did not throw food or other items. During dessert he started getting restless and stood at the end of the table. An older single gentleman eating at the bar started making funny faces for him so Finn did a little jig for him and we allowed it as it was at the gentleman’s request and there were no other tables close by. He took off and headed for the kitchen (where you laughed and offered to put him to work as I took him away) at which time I placed him in a seat at the bar while I closed the tab. Both incidents lasted, what, a minute or two before we stepped in? I’ve seen adults more disruptive and much louder after a couple of glasses of wine. We’re aware he is 3 and has an expiration. When he starts getting restless we take into account other diners and wrap things up. If you read my blog I am quick to throw Finn under the bus if he does misbehave.
Oh, and if he was so disruptive why would both your waitresses comment on how well behaved he was?
There’s also been a couple of interesting comments floating about out there. One by someone who claims to have been out twice and seen us. The person claims Finn was throwing things and carrying on and such. Had that happened I would have written about it as well as about me removing Finn from the restaurant. As it has never happened the person is trying to insert him/herself into the debate by being a bit ‘creative’…. Another claims I’ve let him sleep on the floor or wherever. For the record (and in the blog) he’s fallen asleep twice, in booths as toddlers are wont to do.
Self Important Bloggers vs Self Important Chefs – I write this blog for my friends and family. Sure I have a number of readers beyond that circle but am I trying to promote myself? No. My business? No (if I was I’m doing a really bad job of it as it is not mentioned very often except in very general terms). Do bloggers have any power? Not really but they do tend to be very chatty people and will share slights and insults. In a contracting economy and people being more careful about discretionary spending that may be enough to keep a few people away from your doors. I know we won’t be back.
